Anonymous asked: Hi! I hope things will get better for you. Everyone is always asking you for advice but you should know that "we" are here if you need to vent or talk. I know everything will be okay for you! You are a great person and you deserve lots of great things. You will be okay. <3

Thanks anon, I think the support is what I need most now to know that I’m not alone. You’re beautiful, thank you for this. xx

Anonymous asked: I was nerdy and quiet and shy. I was bullied every day, was depressed, and hated myself. My parents fought all the time and I had nowhere to go and nobody to turn to. Eight years later, I'm still nerdy (no remorse there, lol) and my parents still fight. But I love myself and I learned to find people that could love me too. To any of you lovely people struggling and alone, don't worry. It gets better, and you're not as alone as you think. You're beautiful and strong, and you will make it through.

This is lovely and true. People can make it through anything, they just need to believe in themselves. I’m glad you’ve made it through everything and came out on top. You are an absolutely beautiful person yourself, remember that. ♥

Anonymous asked: my boyfriend and I sleep together. no, we've never had sex, but we take naps in bed when we're tired. my friends always tease me about us being "old people," and then my best friend says it's just weird for people our age and "we have a more mature relationship than high school relationships should be." I'm starting to feel bad, is that weird?

I think that kind of relationship is beautiful and a very rare thing these days, be proud of that and cherish what a wonderful boyfriend you have. A lot of girls would love to have a boy who they can simply sleep with and not have to have sex.

Anonymous asked: I'm a guy who is too fucking nice. I've wasted so much time and effort on girls its ridiculous, and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. I haven't had an official relationship last more than a day, and I'm still a virgin at 18. I actually take the time to get to know people, and I have lots of friends and a close circle of really good friends. I don't get what I'm doing wrong, all I want is someone to cuddle with. Why does the universe hate me so?

Aw, the universe doesn’t hate you. Do you have any idea how many girls would kill to find a guy like you? Maybe you’re going for the wrong girls. Stop trying to find the right one and they’ll come to you when the time is right. And being a virgin at 18, especially when you’re a guy is more something to be proud of I think. Hang in there. <3